Abide by the Vibe: Structure


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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

For the past summer, the concept of “structured success” has grown apparent in my day-to-day life. Every little thing adds up toward the big picture, which is something that eluded me during some of my darker days full of self-destructing, inner turmoil.

Basically, it all boils down to three aspects: mind, body and soul. Without an appropriate balance between all three, one’s homeostasis goes out of whack.

When one part of the machine is broken, you as the individual need to fix or improve that malfunctioning part. It is the only proper way of seeing everything function correctly again. 

For me, this is how I have been tackling each element for my well-being: Continue reading

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Abide by the Vibe: Eyes Forward


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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

Looking back at the past for too long is bad. And yet, I am someone who is guilty about doing so countless times.

What’s done is done. Water under the bridge. Certain ships have long sailed, and there isn’t a single thing I can do about it.

Triumphs, regrets, bad decisions, smart moves and everything else for that matter. I now adamantly believe that everything is just a work in progress toward one’s respective journey in this complex game called life. 
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Abide by the Vibe: Ongoing Story

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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

I like to believe that everything happens for a reason in life. Everyone has their respective story they are constantly telling.

Are some destined for happiness? Despair? Triumph? Failure? Or perhaps something completely unexpected?

To find out one’s inevitable ending, one must simply live life to see how the tale pans out.

“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

Abide by the Vibe: Guidance

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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

Sorry for the lack of posts for a while. I would like to get back into the blogging swing of things.

Lately, I have been seeking a lot of guidance from all kinds of sources.

Soon, I hope to have everything make sense again.

“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

Abide by the Vibe: Image

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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

It is natural for people to desire showcasing a certain, ideal image of themselves on the the surface. Your best foot forward and all.

I am all for seeing someone’s true colors. Whether truly good or bad, I want to know the real person behind a given image.

“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

Abide by the Vibe: Visible

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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

I’ll admit I am an oddball in many ways. When it comes to “attention,” I have always been an extremely shy and bashful person who preferred not being seen or heard.

The center of attention has always made me a nervous wreck. What will people think of me? Will I do something to embarrass myself? Am I going to get judged?

As a result, I’ve relied heavily on avoiding attention whenever I could …

I cope with social anxiety on an everyday basis. It has been like this for me my entire life. Growing up, I was always that “quiet guy,” the one who would barely utter even a squeak. When I would try to talk, I often mumbled my words (a horrible habit of mine even to this day.)

Over the years, I will freely admit it is lonely trying to be hidden all the time. I want attention. NO. I crave it.

Whether through triumphs or struggles, I want people to notice me. I will force myself to become visible to others, whether my anxiety likes it or not.

“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”


Abide by the Vibe: To Reappear

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Abide by the Vibe: Your everyday “vibe” is created on your own terms. Every action and thought will affect this “vibe” constantly. Will you choose to be fueled by a happy “vibe” or will you destroy yourself with a negative one?
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“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”

I’ve been in “hiding” for a long time.

It has been ultimately a selfish choice of mine to do so. Who just goes to “disappear” for a while and then decides to reappear out of the blue?

This guy.

In the process, however, I have missed out on a lot of things among my friends, family members and peers still in my life. I have tuned a lot of things out over the years on purpose. Call it self-punishment. Call it what you want.

It was all necessary … or so it all seemed at the time when I decided I need to drift aside mentally and emotionally to find what I was looking for. Granted, it’s not easy to search for something when you don’t even know what’s missing in the first place.

I was so sure it was one thing, and then … PRESTO. It turns out to be wrong.

Perhaps I was too foolish to think that I could magically find the answers to all of my questions, but life is mysterious that way.

Nevertheless, it’s almost time for me to show up again. Just you wait, world.

Just you wait …

“We all abide by the vibe we create for ourselves.”